But I’ll stand my ground. And I won’t back down- Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

Day 2 of the list is to talk about three fears we have and how they came to be. My mother told me once that a cousin of mine told her she was obsessed with the fear of death that she would spend hours worrying about how she, her husband, or her children could die. I thought, what a terrible thing to have to live with and it just broke my heart. Personally, I don’t think about when/if/ or how I will die because I believe it is predetermined. I may die tomorrow being hit by a bus or I might die when I’m 115 with 20 great-great-grandchildren around me, but it isn’t worth my time to worry about it.

That being said, I do have a few fears. The first is definitely the biggest…